The Right Way to Cope With a Break Up - Have Some Fun

I know that if you are coping with a break up, the last thing on your mind is probably the word fun. Only more the reason why it should be. Think about how most people deal with a break up. Especially if they are the ones that have been dumped. You've seen it a million times before and you will continue to see it. It usually leads to people sulking in their home, and wallowing in their sorrow.

Don't get me wrong. I can definitely empathize with the situation, as I have been through it myself, and I can tell you it's not a whole lot of fun. HOWEVER, the point remains, how is this helping you get your ex back? No to sound cruel, but do you think your ex would take you back based on pity? I really don't think so.

So, just because it may seem like your life is over, it's really not. Just think of the expression on your ex's face when they see a confident person who is not begging or pleading to take them back. Trust me this isn't something that you can fake either. The confidence has to be genuine. Once your ex can see that confidence, then you can begin the process of reuniting.

But how do you get to that level of confidence? Start having some fun.

Personally the bast thing that you can do is go on dates. This is extremely healthy for you and a great way to build your confidence. The whole point of these dates isn't to meet your soulmate (although who knows, that may happen). But its to just get your poise back and enjoy yourself. A little harmless flirting will also get you back into that quasi romantic place that you probably haven't been in a while, and it's always nice to feel that way.

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