Tuesday, March 10, 2009

How To Get My Ex back If He Wants More Space

Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is

broken off because your boyfriend wants space. There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need

space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering

the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.

- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him to get the best of you - But clearly you are still in love

with him. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not

your own.

- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a

conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages,

brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of

your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want and need space.

- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to

truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with

your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away

from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.

- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he just

really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if on the

other hand he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue

gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.

- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel,

but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things,

then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step

back and let things happen more naturally.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my

life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love

back.



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