Great Tips on Dating Older Women

In the past few years dating older women has entered main stream society as a popular trend among both young men and middle aged women.Young men have always found the idea of older women intriguing, and older women found young men to be exotic and somewhat wild and fun. Not until the last few years did it become more socially acceptable. As a result of this new trend, many young men who are new to dating older women are finding themselves in uncharted waters.

The first thing you have to understand if you want to get into a relationship with an older lady is that she has more life experience than young girls, she also may have more baggage i.e.) kids, ex-husband, or even a husband. She is also more likely to try and control the relationship through manipulation because of her age and experiences. If you have little relationship experience and don't have a good understanding about women and women's psychology then you may find this as quite a challenging if not a damaging relationship. I would never recommend this to be your first serious relationship, not unless you feel you can deal with a lot of baggage and are ready to deal with constant challenges.

Besides the baggage and experience that comes with dating them, some of them may be looking for marriage and having kids. Their biological clocks may be ticking and they may really want to have children and will expect you to want the same. This is something you have to seriously think about, because if it is not what you want, then you should make it clear to her, to avoid heart break.

On the other hand there are older women that want to date younger men for pure pleasure and will not expect any deep levels of commitment in return. They like the idea of dating younger men, as it makes them feel younger. They want to have a bit of fun and if you can show them a good time and are able to please them, then this might be a great relationship, if that is what you are also looking for. I actually like the idea of dating older women and have had quite a few meaningful and fun relationships with them.

In any event, I don't like to generalize about a group of people. Dating older women could be just like dating young women, but I mentioned some likely scenarios that you could come across. The most important thing is to have an open-mind and more importantly to discuss with your potential partner what you are looking for in a relationship, what they are looking for and whether this is something the two of you can see working out. This will avoid complications, difficult challenges and pain in the future.

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